Full Transcript — When Grace Finds You: Covenantal Commitment, Compassion and Call
A few years ago, I got to attend a
conference uh in Dresdston in what is
formerly East Germany. Now, Dresden is
one of the most uh if not the most
severely bombed city during World War II
that almost flattened the entire
city. And in the aftermath of uh 1945
Dresden bombings as they were called,
the city was in utter
ruins. And among the charred stone and
mangled se steel, there was this eerie
silence of death
everywhere. But amidst the devastation,
there was a journalist who was recording
the events that happened there. He saw
something very haunting.
Amidst the rubble of a collapsed
building, a piano
sat, its wood was
scorched, one leg was broken, yet
incredibly its strings were
intact. And a local man, fresh off the
bombings, covered in suit and bandages,
sat down, and with trembling hands, he
began to play.
The music that he played and that
emerged was box Jesu joy of man's
desiring. It was soft, cracked and
broken, but it was
real. It was beautiful. And for those
who heard it, it was a song of hope in a
landscape of
despair to remind them even when your
whole world comes crumbling down, Jesus
is our song of
hope. The book of
Ruth is a book like
that. It opens in a spiritual and
emotional wasteland.
talks about famine, loss, and baroness
and
bitterness. Naomi's life is in
rubble. Ruth is a foreigner with
nothing. But then something startling
starts to
happen. And that is what we're going to
look at today. We're jouring through the
Bible in our series walk through the
Bible. Uh last week we touched upon
Judges. And if we read the book of Ruth
as a standalone book, we are going to
miss some of the great amazing truths
that are embedded in it. And if you have
your Bibles, turn with me to the very
last verse in the book of Judges to see
how the book of Ruth can bring
hope. Judges 21:2 ends like this. It
says, "In those days there was no king
in Israel. Everyone did what was right
in his own
eyes. That is how the book
ends. And now until now all of these
books were revealing God in dramatic
ways.
But the book of Ruth does not have
flamboyant
leaders, does not have mind-boggling
wars or great
things. But you can see it is in the
mundane pain, suffering,
baroness, death, destruction that God's
grace actually shines
through. Even in silence or in the
mundane, God's grace is present and he
continues to do extraordinary things
that we may sometimes
miss. So I want to talk about three
things this morning. The title of my
sermon is when grace finds
you. Covenantal
commitment, compassion, and call.
We're going to look at how grace found
certain people and how grace can find
you and me right now in whatever life
situation we may be. And I want to flesh
out for
us these three things from this text.
The covenantal commitment of God, the
covenantal compassion of God, and the
covenantal call of God. And how you and
I ought to respond to that.
the covenantal commitment of God. We all
know we have we've been following the
redemptive history where God makes this
covenant with Abraham and he continues
that through his descendants as God of
Abraham, Isaac, Jacob and Joseph and and
from Egypt. He's faithful to his
covenant. Brings the people, the
covenant people out of Egypt. helps them
to enter the promised
land despite them showing covenantal
unfaithfulness all the time. And God has
raised leaders who can be their
mediators after their patriarchs.
Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Joseph, there was
Moses, there was Joshua, and then there
was a bunch of other judges.
And now it looks
like there is no one to lead the nation
of
Israel as they have continued to
progress in moral and covenantal
decline. You know the book of judges is
a very dark period in redemptive
history. It happened around 1,00 to,200
years before Christ. And right after
that when it looks like the old medieval
dark times a a light begins to shine.
And this light is not coming out of the
nation of
Israel. This light is not coming out in
the form of another great mighty
warrior, king, prophet, priest or
leader.
This slide is emerging from an unknown
woman in a pagan land who do not even
know the covenantal God Yahweh. And
that's the beauty of the book of Ruth.
You miss that, you miss
everything. It looked like for a moment,
if you're tracking this, and those of
you who did the reading the Bible in 60
days would have felt it very intensely.
Suddenly, it looks like God has
disappeared. Suddenly, it looks like God
has forgotten his covenantal people.
It's like he's done. No matter how much
grace I show my children, it appears
that they want to continue to be
unfaithful. I give them leaders. I give
them prophets. I give them judges. They
still don't want me. So, I'm done. And
it looks like he's stopped acting. And
he's going to now withdraw his grace.
Just at that time, just when we begin to
think God does something
unbelievably extraordinary, something he
has not done in such a significant way
in redemptive history till now. And this
covenantal commitment from God begins
with a place and a person.
It says in verse one, "In the days when
the judges ruled, there was a famine in
the land and a man of Bethlehem in Judah
went to Sjourn in the country of Moab,
he and his wife and his two
sons." Talks about the man of Bethlehem,
the city of Bethlehem. The name
Bethlehem in Hebrew, Beth means house,
means a house of bread. It's a very
fertile place where they had wheat and
other uh things that grew very
well. It's ironic that the city of bread
had no
bread and that triggers a
movement. And it's also important to try
to understand when this book was written
and for whom it was written. And
commentators suggest it was likely
written after the time of David because
it talks about David at the very
end. And it creates a spark for the
readers to remind them when they hear
Bethlehem at the very first verse of the
book of Ruth and when they read David in
the very last verse in the book of Ruth.
Those who are reading it later were
supposed to be reminded that God never
forgets his covenant because they all
know what will happen what has happened
in Bethlehem if they were reading it
around the time of David and we will all
know what happened in Bethlehem if we
are reading this right
now to say that God never forgets his
covenant. God never forgets his covenant
people. Even when they walk away and
rebel and live in darkness, his grace
always finds them. His grace will always
find you and me and draw us
back. Verse two onwards, verse 2 to 5
describe a
tragic spiral of despair and darkness
and sadness.
It begins with the name of a
man. The name of the man was Elimc. And
the name of his wife Naomi and the names
of his two sons were Mahalon and
Killion. They were Ephites from
Bethlehem in Judah. They went into the
country of Moab and remained there.
You know of all these names we have
insight only
into one of
them which is the husband of Naomi. His
name is
Elimc. You know the word Elimc like all
Hebrew names have significant
meanings. Eli means my God and Eli in
Hebrew means God is my king.
Just that name is loaded with meaning in
a time just the last words had said that
there were no kings in
Israel. Imagine the faith of the parents
who named Elimc to be as God is my king.
to name a son in a time when there were
no kings talks of an incredible
faith. But it also foreshadows what's
coming next or what's God trying to do
in this
book. We are going to see how God's
covenantal commitment flows through the
lens of three women and their three
responses that we read in the rest of
these verses.
And these three women who stand out, you
know, Ruth is a book about
women,
Naomi, Orpa, and
Ruth. For
Naomi, it's a tragic downward spiral of
calamities, one thing after the other.
It says that she belongs or they all
belong to they were
ephites. And a little bit of background
of Ephroites just enough for us to know
is these were people is who were from
the wife of Caleb's
clan. So in one sense as we all know
only Joshua and Caleb were sort of the
first families of Canaan when they were
inhabited. They commanded tremendous
respect. So this is a classic and a sad
story of a first family with all the
blessings and all the respect and
everything that goes with it in that
culture comes from ra riches to
rags. There's economic poverty. They
have nothing. They have to immigrate to
another country.
Secondly, not just losing financial uh
well-being, her husband
dies and left she's left with two sons
and they married two women orpa and Ruth
and they live for 10 years and what's
silent here whenever it uses 10 years
that's about a period of time that
people in old testament waited to have
children when you don't have some child
by 10 years that's a problem. So she
loses her husband, she gets her two
children married and they have no
children and the hair is a very
significant theme in the whole book of
Ruth and then both her sons die.
Wow. So she has no husband and no sons
and has two daughter-in-laws to care for
in a foreign land that is hostile been
traditionally hostile to the nation of
Israel.
You know, when you lose your husband,
life is
hard. It's hard
enough. Everyone tries to take advantage
of you. I have my mother here. She's
been a widow now for close to 40 years.
And I've seen what she went through in
her life
firsthand, unscrupulous men trying to
treat her with gross contempt and
malice. Starting from the pastor of our
church to police and cops and relatives,
everyone abandoning, leaving you to take
care of yourself and raise your family
alone. It's hard as a widow. For Naomi,
it was worse. At least for my mom. There
were two of us as a children. Naomi, she
lost her husband and her children. Wow.
It's one thing to bury your husband, but
it's a terrible thing as a mother to
bury your children, too.
That can there can be nothing more
devastating a woman can go through in
her life than to lose the ones she
relies on closely for love and support
and
strength. It's in this
situation as we read and you wonder
where is God in the life of Naomi? Why
does God torture this woman like
this? God's grace breaks
through. God's grace always breaks
through when we break down. God's grace
always breaks through in our breaking
points.
And we
read, "Despite all this, she wants to
bless and send her
daughter-in-laws." And she does what
anyone would do. She gives them three
options. When you're a widow, you
basically have three options. Let me
read the text first. Says verse 7, "So
she set out from the place where she was
with her two daughters-in-law, and they
went on the way to return to the land of
Judah. But Naomi said to her
daughters-in-law, "Go return each of you
to her mother's house. May the Lord deal
kindly with you as you have dealt with
the dead and with me. The Lord grant
that you may find rest each of you in
the house of her husband." Then she
kissed them and they lifted up their
voices and wept. So if you were a widow
in those times and even these days, you
basically have three options.
The option number one is you go back to
your parents if they are alive. And in
Naomi's case, from the text and from
what she says of her age and later on
from what we read, it appears she
doesn't have her parents either. Imagine
that. No parents, no husband, no
sons. So that option is ruled out for
her.
The second option that scriptures talk
about for widows is actually encourages
them to remarry. You know, Deuteronomy
25 talks about how widows ought to be
first cared for in a community by
helping them to get married again. 1
Timothy 5 talks about how especially for
younger widows, it is good for them to
remarry for their own good. And I think
it's a wonderful thing though in our
culture sometimes it's not a very great
option. Um I even recently recommended
to my mother. She looks incredibly
beautiful now. I said I'll find a
handsome old man for you. Would you like
to? And she turned me down. That's offer
still there by the
way. The third thing third option is
take care of yourself if it's
financially possible which also was not
there. So all options were off the plate
for Naomi has no parents and she can get
remarried but she says hey I'm well past
childbearing age I don't want to do that
and thirdly she's not even able to take
care of herself
financially but God has scripture has
these three because God is a God whom he
says is a defender of widows and this is
how he defends them through their
parents if they are there by encouraging
them to remarry or if they have nothing
he still provides and he's going to show
that how he does in the life of
Naomi because whichever path one takes
God's grace comes through that so verses
10 onwards it says and they said to her
no we will return with you to your
people but Naomi said turn back my
daughters why will you go with me have I
yet sons in my womb that they may become
your husbands
Turn back, my daughters, go your way,
for I am too old to have a husband. If I
should say I have hope, even if I should
have a husband this night and should
bear sons, would you therefore wait till
they were grown? Because Deuteronomy
says that you, your brothers, if they
are alive and not married, are supposed
to marry and take care? Would you
therefore refrain from marrying? No, my
daughters, for it is exceedingly bitter
to me for your sake that the hand of the
Lord has gone out against me. And here
she's just lashing out, not holding
anything back, brutally
honest. Where Naomi ended up through all
of life's situation, and we can
completely understand, is abject
bitterness. She doesn't even use the
word Lord, the covenantal name. When she
goes back um to Israel later on, she
calls him as El Shadai, the almighty one
has made my life bitter. What she's
basically saying is this powerful God
has completely messed up my life. What
are you talking about? He is a gracious
God. Where is grace in all of this? Come
on,
God. and not just bitterness. So she
thinks now she has to fend for herself.
She hears the news that there's food
back in Israel and goes to pursue
financial
security. But God's grace still found
her in her bitterness. God didn't punish
her because she's now bitter and is
complaining and she's like, "How dare
you?" You
know, Tim Keller has this beautiful
statement. He says, "The book of Ruth is
not about how God helps those who help
themselves. It's about how God helps
those who cannot help themselves." And
that's the message that comes shining
bright and clear in this
book. But despite that, in her goodness,
she doesn't want her daughter-in-laws to
go through what she did. So four times
she tells them, "Turn back and go. Turn
back and
go." And we look at now what were the
responses of the other two. Naomi's
response through life's crisis took her
to a place of bitterness and seeking
financial stability.
Or she says as soon as though she
resists at first, she then tells Naomi
the second time when she say she goes
back. Verse 14, then they lifted up
their voices and wept again, and Orpa
kissed her mother-in-law, but Ruth clung
to
her. In verse 15, and she said, "See,
your sister-in-law has gone back to her
people and to her gods. return after
your
sister-in-law. So
Arpa at this point as they are on their
journey towards Israel, she decides to
go back. You know, the author of the
book doesn't say anything negative or
critical about her and her decisions.
She chooses relational security perhaps
and it says he goes back to her people
and to her gods and that's the path Orpa
chooses. And you then begin to wonder by
this time they were married for a while
10 years or so. We wonder what that
marriage did. What the husband did in
that marriage in revealing anything
about this Yahweh to her that marriage
did not seem to have done much in her
own faith journey. You know in marriage
it doesn't matter how spiritual one
person is but unless you strive to reach
that spiritual alignment and unity when
crisis hits you're going to face the
heat and see the
challenge. After 10 years she still
wanted her God and her people and the
author just leaves it at that and she
goes and she disappears and fades away.
We don't read anything about her after
this in the rest of the Bible. And now
comes the third response, the third
woman,
Ruth. And wow, what a startling,
mind-boggling, poetic, rich response she
has. Verse 16 is one of the pivotal key
verses in the entire book of Ruth. It's
so beautiful, so elegant, theologically
deep, poetically fabulous. Its
construction is absolutely
marvelous. Read with me. And here here
this as I read for you verse 16 and 17.
But Ruth said, "Do not urge me to leave
you or to return from following
you. For where you go, I will go, and
where you lodge, I will lodge. Your
people shall be my people and your God
my God. Where you die, I will die and
there I will be buried. May the Lord do
so to me and more also if anything but
death parts me from you. Wow, that's
even greater than the wedding vows.
People tell each other. Recently in our
25th anniversary, we wrote our wedding
wows and it really moved us. But this
one is a class apart. Way more than
that. More than what a girl would tell
her husband. Here is a daughter-in-law
saying that to a
mother-in-law. Now, just a side note,
you know, mother-in-law, daughter-in-law
relationships are one of the most
interesting ones. How many of you have
at least told your mother-in-law, "I
love you." I'm not suggesting you
should.
I mean, the way you guys are looking at
me looks like I'm in trouble after this
today. I'm not even telling you to tell
the like till death do a spot. I will
stick with you no matter
what. Or at least not say I want to go
see my mom every two years or year or 6
months. I don't know how the frequency
is. That's a side note, guys. It's not
tied to this sermon, okay? Just leave
it.
Anyways, but you know there is something
strange about the language Ruth
uses the language Ruth uses is very
similar to the language God used to tell
of his covenantal
love. When God tells Israel from the
beginning till now, what does God tell
him? You will be my people and I will be
your God. Your Ruth is speaking
covenantal language. She says, "Your
people shall be my people and your God
my God." Wow. She's not even an
Israelite. She's not even a Jew. She's
not even wellversed in the scriptures.
But she caught something magnificient of
this Yahweh. In that very limited time,
she was married to her husband who
passed away. That guy must have done
something awesome.
Despite being a non-Jew and a Moabitete,
Ruth not only responds to God's
covenantal commitment with a similar
commitment. Look at what she says. She
says she will leave her father and
mother. She says she will leave other
gods. She says she will believe in
Yahweh. She addresses God as Yahweh, the
covenantal name of God in the Old
Testament.
You know that's the response God expects
to you and me for his covenantal
commitment towards us. He expects us to
respond with the similar covenantal
commitment. And there is a word for that
in the New Testament and that word is
disciplehip.
That's what a disciple's life ought to
be like because that's exactly what
Jesus said in Luke 14:26. He says, "If
anyone comes to me and does not hate his
own father and mother and wife and
children and brothers and sisters, yes,
and even his own life, he cannot be my
disciple." It's not a radical new
idea. Disciplehip by its very nature is
radical. There is no mediocrity
disciplehip in Christendom.
And when you are touched by the grace of
God, that is just a natural overflow of
what will happen even with a very
limited theological knowledge and
understanding, Ruth shows radical
covenantal commitment through
disciplehip. And she actually did
it. I want to read an excerpt from a
commentary that just so beautifully
describes this. This is what the
commentator writes. He says, "Ruth
decisively casts her lot with Naomi. Her
words encompassed both the vertical and
horizontal dimensions of life. In
geography, they covered all future
locations. In chronology, they extended
from the present into eternity. In
theology, they exclusively embraced
Yahweh. In genealogy, they merged the
young Moabitis with Naomi's family,
securely sealing all exits with an oath.
Ruth soberly gambled the security of the
familiar for the uncertaintity of the
foreign. She recalls an earlier
immigrant Abraham, who also cast his lot
with Yahweh in Genesis 12 1-5.
Ruth's leap of faith, he says, may even
have outdone
Abraham's. She acted with no promise in
hand, with no divine blessing
pronounced, without spouse possessions
or supporting rich. She gave up marriage
to a man to devote herself to an old
woman and in a world dominated by men at
that.
Thematically this illusion to Abraham
sets the story in continuity in that
one. Even says perhaps roots roots may
be called as the women of faith like
Abraham. Isn't it so
profound? Those were the responses.
Three women, three radically different
responses.
Naomi is one of bitterness and goes for
financial security to a land that has
food. She forgot who gives
food. Orpa goes back to family for
relational
security. And there is Ruth who leaves
everything in response to God's covenant
and love. Sees God providing food back
in Israel as an act of his covenant that
he cares for his people.
that she can trust him. She goes back,
gets married, births children, and the
rest, as they say, was
history. It was not
Naomi who was drawn to this covenantal
God, but this Moabitete Ruth.
Dark times look
dark, but God is always silently at work
doing incredible
things. You step back for a moment and
zoom out at 40,000 ft to see what's
going on through all these minute
details and pains and tragedies and
trials in the redemptive history of
nation. God is as much keenly involved
in our details of our life as much as
he's involved in his grand plan for the
world and
nations. And here is Israel, his
covenant people at his time where God is
looking at them. So what's happening for
them? Perhaps God was saying this, no
Moses, no problem. No Joshua, no
problem. No judges, no problem. Not even
an Israelite leader to lead the nation
of Israel towards his redemptive
purposes. No problem. I will raise up
someone from Moab, a non-Israelite enemy
clan because I will remember my covenant
that I said I will bless all nations
through you to Abraham. So, I'm going to
pick one from another nation to continue
my redemptive progressive action in
human history because I am still not
done yet. And that's what God telling
you and me. I'm not done with you. I'm
not done with my purposes for your life.
I'm not done with my kingdom.
And he
continues, "No one saw that, not even
Naomi, that wonderful, kind-hearted
mother-in-law. God's commitment to his
covenant can never be thwarted." Naomi
doubted, she was disturbed, angry, even
complained to God, "That's okay. God
continues to quietly move on to do what
he has to do." So his covenant to show
his commitment to his
covenant. It is surprising
how she responds to God's covenantal
commitment with equal commitment. Ruth,
isn't it? Was not Naomi, the wife of a
man whose name meant God is my king.
Couldn't see
that. But the grace found Naomi. The
grace found Ruth in their pain and
suffering and Ruth responded to it. You
know my dear friends, you and I cannot
avoid going through pain, loss and
suffering in this
life. But we need to always
trust that in these series of ordinary,
seemingly ordinary events, God is doing
extraordinary things to accomplish his
purposes. His grace always finds you.
You're here today because his grace
found you.
When you go through trials for Naomi,
you know what she missed? When she's so
bitter and complaining and
upset, she is missed that God gave her a
Ruth. A Ruth is right next to her. It
says she clung to her. A word that is
used to describe the relationship
between a husband and a wife. Naomi
missed that. Hey Naomi, I haven't left
you. I've given you Ruth. It's not that
you are not going to have an heir. It's
just different. It's not going to work
out the way you planned how your life is
going to be. I have a different plan.
You can never even have imagined. No one
in Israel would have imagined that God
is going to pick someone from Moab to do
his
purpose. She missed
that. That God's grace found her. God's
grace gave her a Ruth. So when we go
through
trials, if you're going to stay in your
bitterness, you're going to miss seeing
the roots in your life. When God sends
his children to show you love, whether
through giving you food or calling you
or praying for you, it's his way of
saying, "I see you. My grace has found
you, and I'm not going to leave you like
that." So believe him in your pain and
draw near to him, my friends.
Grace found Ruth a Moabitete woman who
would go on to become someone who shows
up later on in the genealogy of
Jesus. Let's move on to covenantal
compassion. I just want to uh survey
through this the rest of the book of
Ruth by zooming in on a couple of
verses. The next person who emerges in
the book of Ruth in chapter 2 is Boaz
the kinsman. And you all know the story.
I'm not going to go into it. But what
Boaz does is he visibly models God's
compassion to someone like Ruth. He
demonstrates tremendous compassion in
tangible
terms. Let me just read for us a few
verses and and I'll conclude on that.
Ruth chapter 2 verse 8 onwards. Then
Boaz said to Ruth, "Now listen, my
daughter, do not go to glean in another
field, or leave this one, but keep close
to my young
women, let your eyes be on the field
that they are reaping, and go after
them. Have I not charged the young men
not to touch you?" And when you're
thirsty, go to the vessels and drink
what the young men have drawn?" Then she
fell on her face, bowing to the ground,
and said to him, "Why have I found favor
in your eyes that you should take notice
of me since I am a foreigner?" But Boaz
answered her, "All that you have done
for your mother-in-law since the death
of your husband has been fully told to
me, and how you left your father and
mother and your native land and came to
a people that you did not know before."
And at meal time, Boaz said to her,
"Come here and eat some bread and dip
your morsel in the wine." So she sat
beside the reapers, and he passed to her
roasted grain, and she ate until she was
satisfied, and she had some leftover.
When she rose to glean, Boaz instructed
his young men, saying, "Let her glean
even among the sheavs, and do not
reproach her, and also pull out some
from the bundles for her, and leave it
for her to glean, and do not rebuke
her."
God's covenantal
compassion runs to Ruth through
Boaz when he says leave more for them to
be
gleaned. Boaz is also a morally upright
person who could have taken unfair
advantage of her but he chooses not to.
You know he moves the heart of Boaz.
Now, Ruth did not know before moving if
God would send a Boaz. And even when she
saw him or till the end when there was
another twist in the story where another
suitor came up, she did not know what
was going to happen. Boaz literally
fleshed out the compassion of God to
Ruth and
Naomi. My dear friends, this is not an
isolated event in scripture. Our God is
a compassionate God. He is the father of
the fatherless and defender of widows.
We read about the Shinomite women in the
time of Elisha where God provided for
her through
him. And now we read God's compassion
flowing through Boaz to take care of
Naomi and Ruth. He gives them food here.
But we will see that later on he's going
to give them something far more than
that which not only they need but you
and I
need
but what is significant comes out in a
call a covenantal call. You know, if you
have received and experienced the
covenantal commitment of
God,
then if you have tasted his compassion,
then there is a call for that
commitment. God's act to Ruth reveals
his heart for the fatherless and widows.
You know when Boaz tells his
men, leave more than what she
has, let her glean more wheat so that
she can provide not just for her and her
mother-in-law and
others. He understood there is a call
for someone who has been blessed
incredibly by God to care for those like
them.
Caring
for the orphans and widows is a
responsibility of you and me if we are
to call ourselves the children of God
who have tasted the covenantal love of
God and grace of God in our lives. And
Boaz models this beautifully for us and
how he goes out in so many vivid ways to
demonstrate that in the life of how he
takes care of Naomi and Ruth at
significant costs to
himself. And that is the call you and I
have my dear
friends. Where do we find these people?
Isn't it? Well, it is very very common
in suburbs especially of any large city
in Silicon Valley including where the
there is a growing number of single
parents. Fatherlessness is a major
crisis. Now you just have to show up on
any of the weekend games. when I go to
help out in my son's uh baseball games
and I look at the stands of who is there
to cheer in a team of 12 10 to 12
players or 24 players on both sides you
can count with one hand the number of
dads who actually show
ups to them in places like Oakland and
Richmond we know fatherlessness is the
major cause of gangs where children are
drawn to others and into other
things. Now, our one of our
missionaries, Pastor Danny Sanchez, his
story is powerful, was a vivid
illustration of his own life and how he
continues to work in the mayor's gang
prevention task force. And as a church,
we are supporting him in
that. But our responsibility is not to
shrug off saying, "Oh, I'm giving money
to that missionary. let him go take care
of the fatherless and widows in this
place I live. Let me just live my life
because God's been gracious to me and
I'm so thankful to God. Hallelujah. I'll
come to church and sing songs and
worship him. Let me just get on with my
life.
But you
know, if we have to demonstrate the
covenantal call of God, it starts with
us being involved in the life and flow
in the es and flow of the city where we
live. You need to get involved in your
city. You don't have to even go out of
your way to get involved in your city.
If your children are part of sports
teams, please volunteer in those sports
teams. Now, I' I just learned it. I'm
still learning right now, and it's
incredibly
awesome. It's not just about your child
winning championships or getting medals
that will hopefully help them in their
college admissions. And that's your sole
purpose of putting them there.
But you can
see I I think I shared this before last
year. There was this one kid who broke
all of our heart as coaches when our
manager told the team, "Hey, I want you
guys to practice this particular skill
with your dads." He immediately spoke,
"But I have no
dad." And it was a silence. And it was
heart-wrenching, a 10-year-old saying
that.
And he responds to even the slightest
show of love or care from
anyone. When I offer him or anyone
offers him a ride or to buy a meal, oh,
he is hot. He'll just melt. He's a big
guy who's a big hitter and a great
pitcher, but has a soft heart. He's
longing for the love of a
father. And I was so proud of my team
manager. He said, you know, we all are
like your dad, son. You can talk to us
anytime.
That's showing God's covenantal care.
You can do that. I'm pretty sure your
children are in different sports teams.
Go and volunteer. Be that to someone. Or
if your children are in public schools,
you know, be involved in your schools.
You need to be in the PTAs. You need to
be trying to serve on the boards. You
need to volunteer in whatever the
schools are doing.
A couple of weeks ago, as I was helping
out in our baseball team,
um I'm not very good with my hands as
you all know, but there was no one to
draw the lines on the field using chalk
lines and so I had to learn and I was
very stressed. Those things stress me
out because I don't want to mess the
line. That's very critical in a game.
people fight if the lines are off by a
millimeter. And so I was very stressed
and I was trying to go over it twice and
thrice and make sure it's perfect. And
then suddenly someone called me from
outside. He says, "Hey, that looks
awesome, man. Thank you for drawing
those lines so
well. It made my day. It was like I got
the Nobel Prize or something given my
skills in drawing lines, straight lines.
I
can't people see that it was just
nothing you know but it's more than
that but there you know there's a
problem what is the problem with our
suburban culture in America today
suburban culture in America inside the
church and outside the church is plagued
by what I call as crass consumerism we
have a crass consumerristic mindset
especially if you're immigrants and you
have moved to this country because you
want to send your children to the best
schools. So, you pick the best school
districts and that's fine. There's
nothing wrong about that. But the
mindset is I will send my kids to the
best schools, but I'm not going to do
anything for that school. The school has
to take care of my kids so that they can
get into some good schools or whatever
it may be. It's just consumerism. I will
consume what the school gives me. I
won't give anything back. And if I put
my children in these different sports
teams, I want my kids to do well and
win. And even if the games are on
Sunday, I don't care leaving church
because that's important. That's the
future for my children. But I won't do
anything
there. Same thing with the church. I
want to come and just consume what the
church has to offer and not give
anything
back. Even in money, you know, I don't
know anything about money in our church,
but Silicon Valley um mostly and even
other places, people don't even want to
tithe. Let people give less than 2% or
1% to
God, but they will receive all the
blessings that the church has to
offer. And they will not give to others
even the so-called philanthropic
efforts. or I'm going to help this
person is to win their loyalty to them,
not out of a compassion
mindset. Let's not do that. God wants
you and I to be a boas in our city where
we live, in our workplaces, our schools,
you
know. So, be be a Boaz in your regular
life. You don't have to go to do
something out of the ordinary. You know,
if you are a student at
school, join your clubs or start your
own
club, start a nonprofit. Not with the
intention that it'll look good on your
resume for college apps, but genuinely,
if you see a need, fill it. We spoke
about creating culture last week, isn't
it? Here's your
shot. If you're at
work, you can do some something like
that.
Even the apostle Paul, even when he was
planting churches, he always carried
funds for the poor in
Jerusalem. So if grace found you, then
find those who need grace and be a boass
to them. Don't just live in your crass
consumeristic world inside the church
and outside.
But it's beautiful how the book of Ruth
ends in chapter
4. Israel needed a
king. The name Alimc foreshadowed
it. Not just some
king. It ends with a genealogy that
traces Ruth's son to be the grandfather
of King David.
And then the narrative will shine back
at Bethlehem, Bethlehem where there will
be another king in the line of King
David, Jesus
Christ, the ultimate
king. And this Jesus Christ did the same
thing. There was not a Ruth, but there
was a Samaritan woman who he found who
was a Samaritan. He offered her the same
grace. He found her when the whole world
rejected her. He found
her. He found a cheating tax collector
hiding on a Zyiko tree and went and
dined in his house to show covenantal
love and compassion, inviting him to
himself. He went and found 12 ordinary
men who had no impressive resume, but
who all needed grace again and again and
again.
Grace found another man by the name
Apostle Paul who actually went killing
and persecuting
Christians. Grace found him on the road
to Damascus and changed his
life. And all of them had that
transformation when they found grace.
John 1 talks about grace upon grace when
he describes who Jesus was. And that's
what Jesus Christ as the king came to
reveal. He is not like the other kings
of the world who will use the subjects
for their glory. He is the king who came
to show grace upon grace to make
something beautiful upon from ordinary,
broken, rejected, rebellious, sinful
people. And that grace awaits you and me
this day. My dear
friend, Christ is our king who found us.
Christ is our king who died for us and
calls us to show that grace to the world
around us.
You know, Brian Chapel has this
beautiful quote. He says, "The kindness
of Ruth and Boaz is a mere flicker of
the blazing covenantal love of Jesus
Christ for his
church." So, may I remind us as I close
with three
applications. If you if grace has found
you in whatever situation you may be,
whether you are in a bitter,
complaining, angry mode, seeking to plan
your own life like
Naomi, respond in faith. Will you
respond to grace like
Ruth? Let's Ruth, let Ruth's commitment
be your declaration.
Show compassion like Boaz. Be a visible
channel of God's
compassion to the widow, the foreigner,
the single parent, or that struggling
teen. Compassion isn't random kindness.
Compassion is covenantal love in
action. And if you have tasted this
covenantal
love, will you live out your covenantal
call? God didn't save you to sit. He
saved you to serve. Whether it's through
volunteering or mentoring or giving,
your ordinary obedience is part of God's
extraordinary
plan. You know, the book of Ruth begins
with a famine and ends in a
family. It opens with a funeral and
closes with a genealogy that leads to
Jesus
Christ. Grace found Ruth. Grace found
Naomi. Grace found Boaz. And today,
grace can find you whether you're
bitter, broken, or far from
home. Will you respond like Ruth with
covenantal commitment? Will you serve
like Boas with covenantal compassion?
Will you live like one called under the
wings of a covenant-keeping God through
the work of his son, Jesus Christ? Let's
pray.